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The first annual Ethiopian American Spelling Bee. Something to remember.Ty. Christen Joseph with Abiye Tekle in Addis Ababa

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Was Hip-hop really meant to embrace gangsterism? 
I think it’s important for people everywhere to give this a read, if nothing else, for the sake of new ideas.

My thoughts on the article - 
See below for the full article

I was born in 1986 in Brooklyn, New York. One could say I grew up during Hip-hop’s adolescence. Please allow me to  profess that as long as Rap music exist it will be a pivotal part of my human-experience. I believe that Rap music, that is the art of story telling rhythmically over a beat, is one of mans highest forms of communication and expression. There are so many examples of oppressed people using Hip-hop/Rap as a means of expressing themselves across the globe. Hip-hop at its core is REBEL MUSIC! The first rappers were a particular group of men known as “The Last Poets.” These guys were revolutionaries. Their name alone signifies the transition of The Harlem Renaissance style of poet into what would later be known as rappers or lyricist. There message was extremely close to what we saw out of the Black Panthers, Bob Marley and other progressive groups of the 60s and all eras before the 1980s. Hip-hop is a powerful tool and the music industry (and others) saw that fact. If this article holds any truth at all then to me the industry couldn’t suppress all aspects of Hip-hop. However, by publicizing its more criminal or gangster faction, while alienating those who followed The Last Poets mold, such as Public Enemy, KRS 1, Talib Kweli, Mos Def or MF Doom, the music industry (and others) consciously laid the foundation for the global persecution of “african americans.” 

I’ve lived in several countries for an extended amount of time and no matter where I go I experience a similar breed of racism towards people that look, speak, and dress like me. Most people around the world associate african americans (and others) with whatever their TV or radio instills within them. For the past few decades, until Obama at least, that message has been that we are murderous drug addicts, who only live for thuggery. And even Obama doesn’t change a majority of the ideas about us globally. From Africa to Asia the conversation about Blacks in america always begins with, “Before I met you, I thought all Black-americans were thugs, who love to dance, rap, and play basketball.” For some time I stopped telling people I liked Hip-hop. Alerting them to my cultural roots as a part of that society would enable them to think I was whatever American media taught them to believe. That wasn’t ok with me. I’m aware that they have been given a specific idea about people who look like me. Additionally, if this article is accurate, they propagandized my people into believing that they are something and as usual the masses followed suit. Providing a valid excuse for the rapid incarceration rates of young-black-males everywhere.

People need to research this topic a lot more if you ask me. I might even make this my thesis subject one day. I think the Hip-hop industry is indirectly responsible for many of the ills in the african-american community. But I still maintain that at its root it is the music of the oppressed and it is a power given to us as a result of our TRUE heritage. It’s about time that the oppressed took Hip-hop back and used Rap music for its rightful purpose, i.e. Liberation!!!


Full article - Please read: 

“The Secret Meeting that Changed Rap Music and Destroyed a Generation”

Hello, After more than 20 years, I’ve finally decided to tell the world what I witnessed in 1991, which I believe was one of the biggest turning points in popular music, and ultimately American society. I struggled for a long time weighing the pros and cons of making this story public as I was reluctant to implicate the individuals who were present that day. So I’ve simply decided to leave out names and all the details that may risk my personal well being and that of those who were, like me, dragged into something they weren’t ready for.

Between the late 80’s and early 90’s, I was what you may call a “decision maker” with one of the more established company in the music industry. I came from Europe in the early 80’s and quickly established myself in the business. The industry was different back then. Since technology and media weren’t accessible to people like they are today, the industry had more control over the public and had the means to influence them any way it wanted. This may explain why in early 1991, I was invited to attend a closed door meeting with a small group of music business insiders to discuss rap music’s new direction. Little did I know that we would be asked to participate in one of the most unethical and destructive business practices I’ve ever seen.

The meeting was held at a private residence on the outskirts of Los Angeles. I remember about 25 to 30 people being there, most of them familiar faces. Speaking to those I knew, we joked about the theme of the meeting as many of us did not care for rap music and failed to see the purpose of being invited to a private gathering to discuss its future. Among the attendees was a small group of unfamiliar faces who stayed to themselves and made no attempt to socialize beyond their circle. Based on their behavior and formal appearances, they didn’t seem to be in our industry. Our casual chatter was interrupted when we were asked to sign a confidentiality agreement preventing us from publicly discussing the information presented during the meeting. Needless to say, this intrigued and in some cases disturbed many of us. The agreement was only a page long but very clear on the matter and stated that violating the terms would result in job termination. We asked several people what this meeting was about and the reason for such secrecy but couldn’t find anyone who had answers for us. A few people refused to sign and walked out. No one stopped them. I was tempted to follow but curiosity got the best of me. A man who was part of the “unfamiliar” group collected the agreements from us.

Quickly after the meeting began, one of my industry colleagues (who shall remain nameless like everyone else) thanked us for attending. He then gave the floor to a man who only introduced himself by first name and gave no further details about his personal background. I think he was the owner of the residence but it was never confirmed. He briefly praised all of us for the success we had achieved in our industry and congratulated us for being selected as part of this small group of “decision makers”. At this point I begin to feel slightly uncomfortable at the strangeness of this gathering. The subject quickly changed as the speaker went on to tell us that the respective companies we represented had invested in a very profitable industry which could become even more rewarding with our active involvement. He explained that the companies we work for had invested millions into the building of privately owned prisons and that our positions of influence in the music industry would actually impact the profitability of these investments. I remember many of us in the group immediately looking at each other in confusion. At the time, I didn’t know what a private prison was but I wasn’t the only one. Sure enough, someone asked what these prisons were and what any of this had to do with us. We were told that these prisons were built by privately owned companies who received funding from the government based on the number of inmates. The more inmates, the more money the government would pay these prisons. It was also made clear to us that since these prisons are privately owned, as they become publicly traded, we’d be able to buy shares. Most of us were taken back by this. Again, a couple of people asked what this had to do with us. At this point, my industry colleague who had first opened the meeting took the floor again and answered our questions. He told us that since our employers had become silent investors in this prison business, it was now in their interest to make sure that these prisons remained filled. Our job would be to help make this happen by marketing music which promotes criminal behavior, rap being the music of choice. He assured us that this would be a great situation for us because rap music was becoming an increasingly profitable market for our companies, and as an employee, we’d also be able to buy personal stocks in these prisons. Immediately, silence came over the room. You could have heard a pin drop. I remember looking around to make sure I wasn’t dreaming and saw half of the people with dropped jaws. My daze was interrupted when someone shouted, “Is this a f****** joke?” At this point things became chaotic. Two of the men who were part of the “unfamiliar” group grabbed the man who shouted out and attempted to remove him from the house. A few of us, myself included, tried to intervene. One of them pulled out a gun and we all backed off. They separated us from the crowd and all four of us were escorted outside. My industry colleague who had opened the meeting earlier hurried out to meet us and reminded us that we had signed an agreement and would suffer the consequences of speaking about this publicly or even with those who attended the meeting. I asked him why he was involved with something this corrupt and he replied that it was bigger than the music business and nothing we’d want to challenge without risking the consequences. We all protested and as he walked back into the house I remember word for word the last thing he said, “It’s out of my hands now. Remember you signed an agreement.” He then closed the door behind him. The men rushed us to our cars and actually watched until we drove off.

A million things were going through my mind as I drove away and I eventually decided to pull over and park on a side street in order to collect my thoughts. I replayed everything in my mind repeatedly and it all seemed very surreal to me. I was angry with myself for not having taken a more active role in questioning what had been presented to us. I’d like to believe the shock of it all is what suspended my better nature. After what seemed like an eternity, I was able to calm myself enough to make it home. I didn’t talk or call anyone that night. The next day back at the office, I was visibly out of it but blamed it on being under the weather. No one else in my department had been invited to the meeting and I felt a sense of guilt for not being able to share what I had witnessed. I thought about contacting the 3 others who were kicked out of the house but I didn’t remember their names and thought that tracking them down would probably bring unwanted attention. I considered speaking out publicly at the risk of losing my job but I realized I’d probably be jeopardizing more than my job and I wasn’t willing to risk anything happening to my family. I thought about those men with guns and wondered who they were? I had been told that this was bigger than the music business and all I could do was let my imagination run free. There were no answers and no one to talk to. I tried to do a little bit of research on private prisons but didn’t uncover anything about the music business’ involvement. However, the information I did find confirmed how dangerous this prison business really was. Days turned into weeks and weeks into months. Eventually, it was as if the meeting had never taken place. It all seemed surreal. I became more reclusive and stopped going to any industry events unless professionally obligated to do so. On two occasions, I found myself attending the same function as my former colleagues. Both times, our eyes met but nothing more was exchanged.

As the months passed, rap music had definitely changed direction. I was never a fan of it but even I could tell the difference. Rap acts that talked about politics or harmless fun were quickly fading away as gangster rap started dominating the airwaves. Only a few months had passed since the meeting but I suspect that the ideas presented that day had been successfully implemented. It was as if the order has been given to all major label executives. The music was climbing the charts and most companies when more than happy to capitalize. Each one was churning out their very own gangster rap acts on an assembly line. Everyone bought into it, consumers included. Violence and drug use became a central theme in most rap music. I spoke to a few of my peers in the industry to get their opinions on the new trend but was told repeatedly that it was all about supply and demand. Sadly many of them even expressed that the music reinforced their prejudice of minorities.

I officially quit the music business in 1993 but my heart had already left months before. I broke ties with the majority of my peers and removed myself from this thing I had once loved. I took some time off, returned to Europe for a few years, settled out of state, and lived a “quiet” life away from the world of entertainment. As the years passed, I managed to keep my secret, fearful of sharing it with the wrong person but also a little ashamed of not having had the balls to blow the whistle. But as rap got worse, my guilt grew. Fortunately, in the late 90’s, having the internet as a resource which wasn’t at my disposal in the early days made it easier for me to investigate what is now labeled the prison industrial complex. Now that I have a greater understanding of how private prisons operate, things make much more sense than they ever have. I see how the criminalization of rap music played a big part in promoting racial stereotypes and misguided so many impressionable young minds into adopting these glorified criminal behaviors which often lead to incarceration. Twenty years of guilt is a heavy load to carry but the least I can do now is to share my story, hoping that fans of rap music realize how they’ve been used for the past 2 decades. Although I plan on remaining anonymous for obvious reasons, my goal now is to get this information out to as many people as possible. Please help me spread the word. Hopefully, others who attended the meeting back in 1991 will be inspired by this and tell their own stories. Most importantly, if only one life has been touched by my story, I pray it makes the weight of my guilt a little more tolerable.

Thank you

Posted by Ivan: @hiphopisread.com http://www.hiphopisread.com/2012/04/secret-meeting-that-changed-rap-music.html

Was Hip-hop really meant to embrace gangsterism

I think it’s important for people everywhere to give this a read, if nothing else, for the sake of new ideas.

My thoughts on the article 

See below for the full article

I was born in 1986 in Brooklyn, New York. One could say I grew up during Hip-hop’s adolescence. Please allow me to  profess that as long as Rap music exist it will be a pivotal part of my human-experience. I believe that Rap music, that is the art of story telling rhythmically over a beat, is one of mans highest forms of communication and expression. There are so many examples of oppressed people using Hip-hop/Rap as a means of expressing themselves across the globe. Hip-hop at its core is REBEL MUSIC! The first rappers were a particular group of men known as “The Last Poets.” These guys were revolutionaries. Their name alone signifies the transition of The Harlem Renaissance style of poet into what would later be known as rappers or lyricist. There message was extremely close to what we saw out of the Black Panthers, Bob Marley and other progressive groups of the 60s and all eras before the 1980s. Hip-hop is a powerful tool and the music industry (and others) saw that fact. If this article holds any truth at all then to me the industry couldn’t suppress all aspects of Hip-hop. However, by publicizing its more criminal or gangster faction, while alienating those who followed The Last Poets mold, such as Public Enemy, KRS 1, Talib Kweli, Mos Def or MF Doom, the music industry (and others) consciously laid the foundation for the global persecution of “african americans.” 

I’ve lived in several countries for an extended amount of time and no matter where I go I experience a similar breed of racism towards people that look, speak, and dress like me. Most people around the world associate african americans (and others) with whatever their TV or radio instills within them. For the past few decades, until Obama at least, that message has been that we are murderous drug addicts, who only live for thuggery. And even Obama doesn’t change a majority of the ideas about us globally. From Africa to Asia the conversation about Blacks in america always begins with, “Before I met you, I thought all Black-americans were thugs, who love to dance, rap, and play basketball.” For some time I stopped telling people I liked Hip-hop. Alerting them to my cultural roots as a part of that society would enable them to think I was whatever American media taught them to believe. That wasn’t ok with me. I’m aware that they have been given a specific idea about people who look like me. Additionally, if this article is accurate, they propagandized my people into believing that they are something and as usual the masses followed suit. Providing a valid excuse for the rapid incarceration rates of young-black-males everywhere.

People need to research this topic a lot more if you ask me. I might even make this my thesis subject one day. I think the Hip-hop industry is indirectly responsible for many of the ills in the african-american community. But I still maintain that at its root it is the music of the oppressed and it is a power given to us as a result of our TRUE heritage. It’s about time that the oppressed took Hip-hop back and used Rap music for its rightful purpose, i.e. Liberation!!!

Full article - Please read: 

“The Secret Meeting that Changed Rap Music and Destroyed a Generation”

Hello, After more than 20 years, I’ve finally decided to tell the world what I witnessed in 1991, which I believe was one of the biggest turning points in popular music, and ultimately American society. I struggled for a long time weighing the pros and cons of making this story public as I was reluctant to implicate the individuals who were present that day. So I’ve simply decided to leave out names and all the details that may risk my personal well being and that of those who were, like me, dragged into something they weren’t ready for.

Between the late 80’s and early 90’s, I was what you may call a “decision maker” with one of the more established company in the music industry. I came from Europe in the early 80’s and quickly established myself in the business. The industry was different back then. Since technology and media weren’t accessible to people like they are today, the industry had more control over the public and had the means to influence them any way it wanted. This may explain why in early 1991, I was invited to attend a closed door meeting with a small group of music business insiders to discuss rap music’s new direction. Little did I know that we would be asked to participate in one of the most unethical and destructive business practices I’ve ever seen.

The meeting was held at a private residence on the outskirts of Los Angeles. I remember about 25 to 30 people being there, most of them familiar faces. Speaking to those I knew, we joked about the theme of the meeting as many of us did not care for rap music and failed to see the purpose of being invited to a private gathering to discuss its future. Among the attendees was a small group of unfamiliar faces who stayed to themselves and made no attempt to socialize beyond their circle. Based on their behavior and formal appearances, they didn’t seem to be in our industry. Our casual chatter was interrupted when we were asked to sign a confidentiality agreement preventing us from publicly discussing the information presented during the meeting. Needless to say, this intrigued and in some cases disturbed many of us. The agreement was only a page long but very clear on the matter and stated that violating the terms would result in job termination. We asked several people what this meeting was about and the reason for such secrecy but couldn’t find anyone who had answers for us. A few people refused to sign and walked out. No one stopped them. I was tempted to follow but curiosity got the best of me. A man who was part of the “unfamiliar” group collected the agreements from us.

Quickly after the meeting began, one of my industry colleagues (who shall remain nameless like everyone else) thanked us for attending. He then gave the floor to a man who only introduced himself by first name and gave no further details about his personal background. I think he was the owner of the residence but it was never confirmed. He briefly praised all of us for the success we had achieved in our industry and congratulated us for being selected as part of this small group of “decision makers”. At this point I begin to feel slightly uncomfortable at the strangeness of this gathering. The subject quickly changed as the speaker went on to tell us that the respective companies we represented had invested in a very profitable industry which could become even more rewarding with our active involvement. He explained that the companies we work for had invested millions into the building of privately owned prisons and that our positions of influence in the music industry would actually impact the profitability of these investments. I remember many of us in the group immediately looking at each other in confusion. At the time, I didn’t know what a private prison was but I wasn’t the only one. Sure enough, someone asked what these prisons were and what any of this had to do with us. We were told that these prisons were built by privately owned companies who received funding from the government based on the number of inmates. The more inmates, the more money the government would pay these prisons. It was also made clear to us that since these prisons are privately owned, as they become publicly traded, we’d be able to buy shares. Most of us were taken back by this. Again, a couple of people asked what this had to do with us. At this point, my industry colleague who had first opened the meeting took the floor again and answered our questions. He told us that since our employers had become silent investors in this prison business, it was now in their interest to make sure that these prisons remained filled. Our job would be to help make this happen by marketing music which promotes criminal behavior, rap being the music of choice. He assured us that this would be a great situation for us because rap music was becoming an increasingly profitable market for our companies, and as an employee, we’d also be able to buy personal stocks in these prisons. Immediately, silence came over the room. You could have heard a pin drop. I remember looking around to make sure I wasn’t dreaming and saw half of the people with dropped jaws. My daze was interrupted when someone shouted, “Is this a f****** joke?” At this point things became chaotic. Two of the men who were part of the “unfamiliar” group grabbed the man who shouted out and attempted to remove him from the house. A few of us, myself included, tried to intervene. One of them pulled out a gun and we all backed off. They separated us from the crowd and all four of us were escorted outside. My industry colleague who had opened the meeting earlier hurried out to meet us and reminded us that we had signed an agreement and would suffer the consequences of speaking about this publicly or even with those who attended the meeting. I asked him why he was involved with something this corrupt and he replied that it was bigger than the music business and nothing we’d want to challenge without risking the consequences. We all protested and as he walked back into the house I remember word for word the last thing he said, “It’s out of my hands now. Remember you signed an agreement.” He then closed the door behind him. The men rushed us to our cars and actually watched until we drove off.

A million things were going through my mind as I drove away and I eventually decided to pull over and park on a side street in order to collect my thoughts. I replayed everything in my mind repeatedly and it all seemed very surreal to me. I was angry with myself for not having taken a more active role in questioning what had been presented to us. I’d like to believe the shock of it all is what suspended my better nature. After what seemed like an eternity, I was able to calm myself enough to make it home. I didn’t talk or call anyone that night. The next day back at the office, I was visibly out of it but blamed it on being under the weather. No one else in my department had been invited to the meeting and I felt a sense of guilt for not being able to share what I had witnessed. I thought about contacting the 3 others who were kicked out of the house but I didn’t remember their names and thought that tracking them down would probably bring unwanted attention. I considered speaking out publicly at the risk of losing my job but I realized I’d probably be jeopardizing more than my job and I wasn’t willing to risk anything happening to my family. I thought about those men with guns and wondered who they were? I had been told that this was bigger than the music business and all I could do was let my imagination run free. There were no answers and no one to talk to. I tried to do a little bit of research on private prisons but didn’t uncover anything about the music business’ involvement. However, the information I did find confirmed how dangerous this prison business really was. Days turned into weeks and weeks into months. Eventually, it was as if the meeting had never taken place. It all seemed surreal. I became more reclusive and stopped going to any industry events unless professionally obligated to do so. On two occasions, I found myself attending the same function as my former colleagues. Both times, our eyes met but nothing more was exchanged.

As the months passed, rap music had definitely changed direction. I was never a fan of it but even I could tell the difference. Rap acts that talked about politics or harmless fun were quickly fading away as gangster rap started dominating the airwaves. Only a few months had passed since the meeting but I suspect that the ideas presented that day had been successfully implemented. It was as if the order has been given to all major label executives. The music was climbing the charts and most companies when more than happy to capitalize. Each one was churning out their very own gangster rap acts on an assembly line. Everyone bought into it, consumers included. Violence and drug use became a central theme in most rap music. I spoke to a few of my peers in the industry to get their opinions on the new trend but was told repeatedly that it was all about supply and demand. Sadly many of them even expressed that the music reinforced their prejudice of minorities.

I officially quit the music business in 1993 but my heart had already left months before. I broke ties with the majority of my peers and removed myself from this thing I had once loved. I took some time off, returned to Europe for a few years, settled out of state, and lived a “quiet” life away from the world of entertainment. As the years passed, I managed to keep my secret, fearful of sharing it with the wrong person but also a little ashamed of not having had the balls to blow the whistle. But as rap got worse, my guilt grew. Fortunately, in the late 90’s, having the internet as a resource which wasn’t at my disposal in the early days made it easier for me to investigate what is now labeled the prison industrial complex. Now that I have a greater understanding of how private prisons operate, things make much more sense than they ever have. I see how the criminalization of rap music played a big part in promoting racial stereotypes and misguided so many impressionable young minds into adopting these glorified criminal behaviors which often lead to incarceration. Twenty years of guilt is a heavy load to carry but the least I can do now is to share my story, hoping that fans of rap music realize how they’ve been used for the past 2 decades. Although I plan on remaining anonymous for obvious reasons, my goal now is to get this information out to as many people as possible. Please help me spread the word. Hopefully, others who attended the meeting back in 1991 will be inspired by this and tell their own stories. Most importantly, if only one life has been touched by my story, I pray it makes the weight of my guilt a little more tolerable.

Thank you

Posted by Ivan: @hiphopisread.com http://www.hiphopisread.com/2012/04/secret-meeting-that-changed-rap-music.html

Finally took some new pictures at work. 

More than pupils, these people were/are a large part of my inspiration. I can never forget them. 

 At South West Academy 

In - Lafto, Addis Ababa - Ethiopia

One of these photos was taken in 1965 and the other last night. Not much has changed: It’s freedom for some. Some people have the freedom to ignore the horrid injustice that many consistently endure. Some of us have no choice but to fight back. That is not true freedom. Not at all…

One of these photos was taken in 1965 and the other last night. Not much has changed: It’s freedom for some. Some people have the freedom to ignore the horrid injustice that many consistently endure. Some of us have no choice but to fight back. That is not true freedom. Not at all…

Source: facebook.com

In celebration of women everywhere. Not just for a month, but always…

See the full version and other cool stuff at The i am We blog:

http://thoughtsdelivered.wordpress.com/2013/03/12/in-celebration-of-women-everywhere-not-just-for-a-month-but-always/screen-shot-2013-03-12-at-6-17-47-pm/

In celebration of women everywhere. Not just for a month, but always…

See the full version and other cool stuff at The i am We blog:

http://thoughtsdelivered.wordpress.com/2013/03/12/in-celebration-of-women-everywhere-not-just-for-a-month-but-always/screen-shot-2013-03-12-at-6-17-47-pm/

Humanity isn’t stagnant in my opinion. People want change. But most are fooled into thinking that a politician will bring that change to fruition. Some think that the system is systematically against them. And those who fight are told that they need to take care, for their lives are in danger. We live in a world-society that says it’s ok to make millions by any means necessary, while fighting for equality is tantamount to terrorism. The youth of today have been manipulated to believe they are powerless. The occupy movement is the closes to the 60s that we have been privy to, while still living to talk about it. Our elders have a responsibility to guide us in the face of opposition, support our efforts and be a voice in the light of media manipulation. Many of us are depicted as crack pots who only care about prohibition as opposed to actually giving a fuck about the overall wellbeing of humanity. Which I believe is a fallacy of the highest sort. Although the media would have, even us, believe that is the truth. We can do better. We can fight in a wiser fashion. We can bring about the change that’s needed. But we need our elders to believe in us. Without you we are birds without a feather. Revolutionaries without the support of our ancestors and destined to fail. Encourage those who are willing to fight for what’s right. I believe that together we can bring forth the change we all need.

Humanity isn’t stagnant in my opinion. People want change. But most are fooled into thinking that a politician will bring that change to fruition. Some think that the system is systematically against them. And those who fight are told that they need to take care, for their lives are in danger. We live in a world-society that says it’s ok to make millions by any means necessary, while fighting for equality is tantamount to terrorism. The youth of today have been manipulated to believe they are powerless. The occupy movement is the closes to the 60s that we have been privy to, while still living to talk about it. Our elders have a responsibility to guide us in the face of opposition, support our efforts and be a voice in the light of media manipulation. Many of us are depicted as crack pots who only care about prohibition as opposed to actually giving a fuck about the overall wellbeing of humanity. Which I believe is a fallacy of the highest sort. Although the media would have, even us, believe that is the truth. We can do better. We can fight in a wiser fashion. We can bring about the change that’s needed. But we need our elders to believe in us. Without you we are birds without a feather. Revolutionaries without the support of our ancestors and destined to fail. Encourage those who are willing to fight for what’s right. I believe that together we can bring forth the change we all need.

Culture day in Ethiopia at South West Academy: 
It’s been generations since my DNA has touched this soil. Home for the first time. Never felt so good!

Culture day in Ethiopia at South West Academy: 

It’s been generations since my DNA has touched this soil. Home for the first time. Never felt so good!

Currently, dealing with being seen as defiant because I want to separate. I just want to be my own. I guess that’s just to much to ask. 

Currently, dealing with being seen as defiant because I want to separate. I just want to be my own. I guess that’s just to much to ask.